Healing the Inner Child
By Kate Spreckley
Arrived as e-mail on May 8, 2006, re-studied on May 31, 2007

The concept of the Inner Child is not new and has been a part of our world for a long time.
Carl Jung called it the “Divine Child” which is the essence of who we truly are.

…. we are taught that the mind is our master ...
...that we need to prove ourselves and our worth through external avenues. ..
This has resulted in us being raised in a shame-based, emotionally dishonest, … world. …

Can we blame our parents, our societies and our churches?
Yes, but that is playing the part of the victim,
that is playing the game of separation.
We are all part of this world
and we are all responsible
for its ways, its paths and its separations.

Our parents did not know
how to truly love themselves
or how to be emotionally honest ...



We have lived a life reacting to the wounds of the past
and the dysfunctional programs we have been subjected to
and have now created our dysfunctional culture.

…. When our True Self is not acknowledged or heard
we begin to create situations and relationships that are false
and keep us in a place of unresolved emotional trauma.
This leads to a life of anxiety, fear, …

The Inner Child is our emotional self
and it is the place where our feelings live,
it is our Heart.
When we experience joy, sadness, anger and fear
our Inner Child is coming out.
When we are being spontaneous, creative, intuitive and playful
our True Self is coming out.

It is not our past that affects us;
it is the images and memories of it.
By accessing our Inner Child
and reclaiming this wounded child
we begin to uncover
any conscious or unconscious beliefs of ourselves
and begin to re-evaluate and transform ourselves and our lives.

It is through healing our Inner Child
that we can begin to change our behavioral patterns
and clear up our emotional responses.
Once we begin
loving, honoring and respecting ourselves internally,
we are able to release grief, rage, shame, terror and pain from our hearts
and begin transforming
our life
and our world
with spontaneity, creativity, joy and love.

...

It is possible to feel feelings without becoming a victim.
It is possible to change the way you think
so that your mind is no longer your worst enemy.
It is possible to become empowered
and to make choices in life that are aligned with your True Self.
We have the power of choice
and we are given the opportunity with our children to begin healing ourselves, …

http://www.spiritpathways.co.za/healing%20inner%20child.html

With the healing of the Divine Child,
our Inner Child,
and the releasing of old wounds
and negative  p a t t e r n s   of emotion,
we are able to connect with our natural emotional sensitivity
and experience compassion and unconditional love for ourselves.
We begin to allow our Inner Child
to show our fears
and to heal these fears
with a heightened level of compassion and love
instead of suppressing them
and thereby denying our Inner Child a voice.

As the Divine Child enters into adulthood
and begins integrating
with the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine within,
we are able to explore the ways of our individual power
and to use this energy ...
to make new choices
that determine our future from a place of love rather than fear.

... we find ways
of nurturing and loving our physical bodies and our emotional state.
We begin to understand
that our physical body and our emotions are inextricably linked.
Once we have an understanding
of the link between our physical and emotional bodies
we can recognize that these bodies are linked
to the Earth Mother
and the Waters of our world,
which are both the Ancient Feminine aspects of ourselves.

In releasing old self-destructive tendencies
of our physical body and old emotional wounds
we can find new ways of love and compassion for ourselves
and thereby heal the Mother Earth and her Waters.
Accepting
that what we feel, our emotional state,
is directly manifested in our physical body
and thereby in the Mother Earth.
How we treat our physical body
... is a direct reflection of
how we love, nurture and care
for our emotional state
and the state of our Mother Earth.

We are at a time of discovering
what our truest, deepest and highest values
are for ourselves and our lives.
In this discovery we find
that we are no longer chained to people and to things
that have to do with lesser values
and we appreciate the beauty and perfection of ourselves
as individual Human Beings.
We are on the threshold of a new world of stability and tradition.
A world were the Ancient Teachings are found
within the individual Feminine self,
our inner world, the Earth Mother.
Here we can discover
that this inner world creates our outer world
and therefore our physical reality
is a direct manifestation
of our inner feelings of self worth.


...Now is a time for us
to embrace our instincts regarding
what is right and wrong for ourselves as individuals
without the fear of judgment from others.

... It is necessary for us
to deal with our fear of success,
the fear of our light,
which was created in our early life
due to the suppression of our creativity
and the lack of positive examples of self expression.

Like a child,
it is essential that we see
that it is the act of creation
that is important,
not the creation itself.

Everything we experience
has a beginning, a middle and an end
and is followed by a new beginning.
Do not draw back from this passage into your darkness,
drive into the depths of your emotions
and find your way through.
Allow yourself to stay present in your issues and fears
so that they may be dissolved,
transcending or denying them
will only bring them back further along your Earth Walk.

When I searched, where I had explained why Lag-ba-Omer is such a horrid feast,
I was led to K.i.s.s.-log 2008 , where the "festival" is mentioned twice, but not explained,
Yet I found two other items on this page - sculpted - what a COINCIDENCE - also on May 23!
a possible answer for Immanuel: "hitches" = "contretemps" = "against time"....
and two photos with a smiling Jonathan on Yael's Bat-Mitzvah on May 20, 2008!
As to Bar-Kochba, Star-Son, or - as the wise rabbis called him - Bar-Koziba: Deceiver-Son
see the chapter in my book, to which I - in 2002- added
a heart-wrenching sculpture in E n g l i s h ,
about what I see as the HOlOCAUST of BETAR, in the year 133 A.D.

Jonathan, on Februar 1, 2011,
at his little brother's Bar-Mitzvah
during the duet with his sister Yael
of
"the Brave Cedar"

"Abraham" (1997) e-mail quote on May 24, 2011

"Be easy about this.
Be playful about it.
Don't work so hard at it.
=

"Walking humbly with your God" [Micah 6:9]

Let your dominant intent be to feel good,
and if you don't feel good,
then let your dominant intent be to feel relief.
Feel your way through it.
If you think your way through it,
you can get off on all kinds of tangents.
If you feel your way through it,
you can come quickly to your Core Energy,
and when you do that only good can then flow to you."

"But I am You!"

But why then do I have to focus on writing blindly,
instead of simply writing my thoughts?

"If you focus on your desire to hear yourself through ME,
there is a chance, that you hear yourself on a higher frequency!"

So now tell me, how should I cope with the evil of incest.

"First of all, you should express your grate-full-ness again and again
for the fact, that what nobody could talk about in the seventies,
is now coming into the open,
though the law does no longer deal with crimes that old.

"Second, denying sexual abuse,
both on the perpetrator's and on the victim's part,
is the epitome of denial, the ultimative denial,
especially because there is this collaboration between perpetrator and victim,
both in the "act" itself and and the "not talking about it" afterwards,
not even between the victims among themselves."

"So, if this horrid denial of at least five thousand years is now exposed,
you can see in it a most important sign of the maturing of Heaven on Earth."

So far, I am with you, and I am eager to detect and strengthen these signs.
But I simply can't see any way for preventing incest and sexual abuse from happening,
since I don't understand what makes a perpetrator tick.

"But you do understand, what makes a victim collaborate
and you do understand, what makes a victim to deny or "not talk".
And if the victim changes, so will the perpetrator."

But – I scream at you – what about small children?
How can they even understand what's being done to them.
It makes me furious, that you seem to ignore this!

Scream at me and feel all that pain in your throat.
Children are the children of parents.
And you often quote that verse about "unto the third and fourth generation",


visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children
unto the third and fourth generation
Exodus 20:4

or that other verse about: the parents who ate sour grapes


In those days they shall say no more:
'The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge.'
Jeremia 31:8

'What mean ye, that ye use this proverb in the land of Israel, saying:
The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge?
Ezechiel 18:2

If a parent wouldn’t feel and act as a victim, his or her child would not either."

I don't believe you

"You don't believe me?
But if you feel such immense pain with regard to …
isn't it, because you see the "gene" of victimhood bequeathed from you to ...?"

I bow my head.

But all this doesn't explain why there is this raping everywhere,
right now – as if we had not enough shame over our former President -
with the chief of the International Monetary Fund, also a Jew to my shame.

First of all, there was also Clinton, not a Jew, remember?
Second, why are you surprised,
knowing the role of Jews being the yeast in the world's dough?
But let me relate to your mind's pleading for understanding.

The Channelers tried to explain to you [in Godchannel>.pain2],
that all this is a re-enactment of what happened between the parts of Deity.
You said, this doesn't help you in any way.
So let go of your mind's desperate need to understand.
Yesterday (see above : May 24, 2011) I let you see "Abraham's" quote:
Focus on what you feel,
and let yourself feel this in your throat,
palm your eyes and move your Body and sound your voice,
and just feel the pain.
I say pain, not shame, not powerlessness!
For if you let go of your judgments,
there won't be shame,
there will be pain,
there will be grief.
That's what the main participant in "We are not the only ones",
and the only one whose face was disguised through all the program, said,
after he told how the abuse of years "influenced"' his later life:

This is, what I'll help you to do,
if you agree to focusing on it:
To feel the pain, to feel the grief,
to move the pain and the grief again and again,
without the desire, that they may go away.
For as long as you are committed to "descend to the Mother in Hell"",
the pain cannot stop and should not stop.
As long as not all aspects, all fragments have healed into wholeness,
and therefore are masters of their lives,
not victims to anybody, your pain cannot stop
nor do you want it to stop.
Remember your beautiful transformation of a song:
"the tears will become water to irrigate the fields…
Is this too scarce an answer, beloved?

No. I'll at least trie to do that:
palm my eyes with my hands,
breathe and feel and sense the pain in my throat,
whenever an info or a memory trigger the pain.

thank you! Amen =I trust that it will be!
[end of blind written dialog: 14:04]

When, on my way to the pool, I opened my digital recorder for rehearsing songs,
the first song I encountered - [Zecharia 8:4], reminded me of the passage above
about "Jews being the yeast in the dough of the World":
"And it shall come to pass that, as ye were a curse among the nations,
....so will I free you and ye shall be a blessing"

“How long the road is.
But, for all the time the journey has taken,
how I have needed every second of it
in order to learn what the road passes by!”
Dag Hammarskjöld

CELEBRATE WHAT'S RIGHT WITH THE WORLD

Each week I post a photograph
with the same simple message:
Celebrate What's Right with the World!
... Receive .. the PHOTOS OF CELEBRATION by e-mail!

It is my hope that, in some small way,
they will remind us all to celebrate
what's right with the world! –
Dewitt


"Open the eyes, look at the World"
Lea Goldberg, the poetess of gratitude

"Teach me, to bless the mystery of a withered leaf"
Lea: grateful for the tiniest experience of each day.

.....I ....marvel at Oprah's ability to Witness and Appreciate others.
To meet us wholly and completely in the moment and SEE us.
Her gift for drawing out tears of Joy, sorrow, and healing
are well known,
as is her generosity in sharing her resources, her stage and her Life
with multitudes across the planet.

So after 25 years, what did Oprah Winfrey say
was her biggest take-away from the adventure?
"Gratitude is the single greatest treasure
I will take with me from this experience."

Of course, some might say
'Of course she's grateful, look at her life.'

However, Gratitude is the root CAUSE
of a joy-filled Life,
rather than an effect.
Gratitude opens our hearts,
connects us to the ever-present moment of Now,
and acts a bridge between where we are, and where we intend to BE.

Oprah is living proof Gratitude works.

"Be thankful for what you have;
you'll end up having more.
If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."
~ Oprah Winfrey

"Whosoever surrendereth his purpose to Allah while doing good,
he verily hath grasped the firm hand-hold.
Unto Allah belongeth the sequel [outcome] of all things."
Surah 31:22, listen to my song

Hathra now sang it to me on her secret phone,
while crying and pleading with me to help her.
I rediscovered a "Hathor message" with the following quote:

Quoting from "Bedouin Self-Determination" - scroll to the end: January 4, 2010:
Em-powering the self-victimizing, conflicting nations in the Holy Land
will begin with the self-empowerment of Ismael, Abraham's firstborn,
i.e.  the indigenous, transnational, Desert People around the Salt Sea:
the Bedouin will teach us peace between adam and adamah ["earth"].

Hagai Lev, Jan. 23, 2004, in Noah's Cave: "There will be no peace here,
until we, the Jews, will become the guests of the Desert People,
and let them connect us to the earth (adamah).
Once we shall be dependent on them, they will feel equal
and then they might forgive us the expulsion of Ismael."

In January 2006 I received the message through my hurting body:
"Cease to manifest anything on the exterior level!
Focus entirely on healing yourself into wholeness!
Only if denials are healed and judgments released,
will an exterior creation be a blessing instead of a curse!"

I promise myself, that throughout the year of 2010
I shall with all my heart-body-mind concentrate on:
'Celebrate, celebrate your self-worth
Celebrate what is right in the World!'

And "Noah" "Noakh" rested "nakh" from all his stress
and  learnt  to  be  easygoing  "noakh" with  himself
and from there also easygoing "noakh" with others.

I learnt it in the last 5 years, didn't I?
So what now?

"Abraham" (1997) e-mail quote on May 27, 2011

Every time you say,
"I appreciate that.
I really like that.
I applaud that.
I acknowledge the value in that."
Every time you do that,
you spend some of your Energy,
and it is the spending of the Energy
that creates ....an attraction, so to speak,
that draws more and more [of what you desire].